"NO" And I Mean It!

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And I said "No". I have learned to say NO. I have learned now to tell the truth and not always go with the flow. I have to tell them I cannot do that since that's the real situation. I have learned to say No even if it is against my will but I have to since if I say Yes I will sacrifice more. I do not want to sacrifice more for the others. I have done it before and guess what's happened? I suffered some consequences. Saying No may hurt others but they have to learn to accept that.

I have to stand on my own. And saying No is one of them.

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